Before making your next argument, pause. Are you truly listening? Psychiatrist M. Scott Peck once said:

“You cannot truly listen to anyone and do anything else at the same time.”

If you’re planning your rebuttal while the other person speaks, you’re not really listening – you’re waiting. Active listening means being fully present. It means restating another’s point of view, even if you disagree. That simple act builds trust and deepens dialogue.

So, try listening to understand, not reply. It’s how constructive disagreements are built – and how real respect grows.

Make it a great day, dear reader, and listen first.